And in that messy, complicated, beautiful reality, cinema has finally found its most compelling protagonist: the step-sibling who learns to share a bathroom, the step-parent who learns to listen, and the child who learns that love can be rebuilt.
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Consider The Edge of Seventeen (2016). Hailee Steinfeld’s Nadine is reeling from the suicide of her father. When her mother begins dating and eventually marries a man (and his son) that Nadine detests, the film brilliantly captures the teenage rage of being asked to move on before you’re ready. The step-father isn't evil—he’s just not dad . The film’s victory is that it doesn't force a happy resolution. Nadine doesn't end up loving her step-father; she ends up accepting him. That small distinction is revolutionary. And in that messy, complicated, beautiful reality, cinema